Victim or Creator?

"It's not what you possess or what happens to you in life that matters, but rather what you do with it."

Each of us is faced with challenges every day of our lives. And with each challenge, we make choices in how we react. By choosing to become more conscious of how we react to challenges, we can shift our actions towards creating what we really want in our lives. Rather than following habitual, reactive patterns which cause us to behave like victims, we can recognize and transform old habits to create the life we really want. Yet to do this, we must first find the courage to look at some of the disempowering, often unconscious patterns which cause us to play the victim role, and then choose instead to empower the creator in ourselves.

http://www.wanttoknow.info/g/victim_or_creator_vs

Examples of Common Core Challenges and Associated Fears or Beliefs

http://www.momentoflove.org/coreissue

Get Rid of:

• Abandonment – Nobody cares about me. I'm all alone. I don't matter. I can't trust anyone.
• Arrogance – I'm better than all of you. I'm too much. I'm right and you're wrong.
• Damaged – Something is wrong with me. I'm a failure. I'm damaged.
• Inferiority – I'm not good enough. I'm stupid. I'm worthless. I'm boring. I'm hopeless.
• Rejection – I'm a burden. I'm unwanted. Nobody wants to spend time with me.
• Shame – I'm bad. I'm evil. I'm a mistake. I'm a monster. I'm disgusting. I'm possessed.

Replace with:

• Acceptance - We are all the same element so I am never alone. My purpose is significant.  I can trust energies.  I make no mistakes, only lessons.  Karma guides me.
• Equality – We are all the same.  We are great together.  All is right and all is wrong. Balanced.
• Wholeness – Nothing is wrong with me. I'm my greatest self right now. I'm powerful beyond measure.